Kathy and Friends!

I have noticed every since I have been a member that Spamming (Actually it should be Flamming) a persons forum is and will be a problem.

Now, I do not have any forums so I do not have a problem with this.  I do post in others forums (When I have something to say) but the majority of the times I visit a forum and the forum it's self is nothing more than a person advertising their business.

When I mentioned Flamming, for those that do not know it is when a person will visit a persons web site and if they have a contact link, the person will send their business information via their contact link.  This is very poor taste and is usually done by inexperienced and desperate marketers.

There is a way to prevent all of this from happening and that is to moniter all messages that are being posted.  When someone wants to post, all you have to do is to reject the post and send the member the reason their post was rejected.

I have had a couple of posts rejected, but I have never taken it personal, I just feel that we may not be Like Minded People.

We have joined together to build one of the best marketing programs that is available today, so let's not destroy it by any petty arguments.  Let's be considerate of other people and educate instead of quibiling!

I say this in love and not to be obstinate.

I don't spend as much time here as I used to due to the constant ads.  I came to this community to see if I could learn business techniques from others.  I constantly receive emails from ads and forum invites all day long.  I'm pretty sure I miss some important invites but I usually just delete them anymore.

One thing I would like to see is for this community to actually come together to help each other.  Don't help someone with the hidden agenda of trying to help yourself first.  Probably 95% of the people in these communities have a business already they are trying to work.  They should be able to come to these forums and find marketing tips or how steps on how to network in their own communities.

I don't like when I read forums and most of the replies are about peoples business.  I don't really care about the business - I've come to the forum to try to learn something that I can use in my business.

This community is about building relationships.  You should be able to email anyone in your friends list and sincerely ask for help.  When I'm saying "help", I don't mean please come join my program.  Help can just be some words of encouragement or simple advice.