Hi Kathy, very interesting forum you have going here ! Friendship...hmmm....friends are those who stand up for each other, no matter what, and not against each other! those that do so, are no friends at all......I would surely treat such persons as non-existant. and go on with my life, counting my blessings that are in the form of the many sincere friends I have in my life ! I wouldnt even waste my time trying to analyse the why's and how'z of such a person. No definately not worth the trouble....instead I'd rather spend that energy doing something nice and kind for a real close friend. The reason certain people behave this way is probably because of some underlying unresolved conflict that they carry with them. I feel sad for people such as these, they do not realize that they are hurting themselves most of all. Last but not least, friendship to me is as described in the Bible.....John 15:13 'greater love has no-one than this, than to lay down one's life for his friend.' even if we come anywhere close to this...we can consider ourselves a good and sincere friend. Pray that good sense will prevail, and that ADLANDPRO remains the nicest place to be, as always !!!!!!!!!! :) Pauline R
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