When I got divorced 2 years ago, I didn't ask my brothers or sisters for help, I asked my father if I could stay at his house and he said one word, "No."
The man I was planning to marry after my divorce had been hit by a car and had serious injuries and I also couldn't live with him at that time.
So I had to push myself as hard as possible to start earning as much as I could online.
The only reason I mention income amounts is to show that certain businesses DO work the way they say they do, and people CAN earn online if they put full focus and a lot of effort into it.
My father needs help with my Mom now because she's bedridden with Alzheimers and Dad is going to be 80 in a couple weeks. I asked him again a few months ago if he'd like for me & my son to go live there and help, since I also have financial means now, and again, he said "No." The cost of full-care nursing home for Mom would be $4,500 per month, she's very heavy for Dad to move her around and take care of her and change her clothes, and it's obviously taking a toll on him, he looks 10 years older than he did last year.
Sometimes even when we start gaining a little more or a lot more than we had before, relatives still are not happy with us, sometimes people just like to dwell in their own thoughts and not even give a word of..."you did good." It would be nice though.
I have full heart, I'm a polite houseguest and a strong person and I can tolerate his personality, I'd really like to help my Dad and Mom, but two times of "No" doesn't make me want to offer again. That makes me think twice about saying the words, none of us like rejection, even if offering and helping is the right thing to do.
(Online amounts of income: Working online works for people who work it with their focus, determination, need to live without being looked down upon, and need to have confidence no matter what other people think/say, working with blinders on, like a racehorse, focus straight ahead, not on what other people are doing or not doing. Most people don't work like that = most people don't earn like that. Where did I get it from? Watching my disabled sister push herself all her life, push herself to walk to take public transportation all over Philadelphia and get her university degrees and become an instructor. We come from the same parents, we're made from the same strength, "If she could, I can!" Those are my daily words. I can, I do, I don't stop, I don't worry. There are 7 billion people on this earth, or maybe 8 billion, who's opinion do we worry about? All or none. If we don't listen to some of our relatives, why listen to billions of strangers?)