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Roger Macdivitt .

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Re: What about Respect in Making a Difference?
2/8/2009 7:14:07 AM

Alain,

Great subject.

Respect is probably the biggest human tool available to anyone in this world.

Much is said about love and understanding, but little about respect.

Although love can overcome huge obstacles and understanding goes a long way to healing rifts and differences, repect falls into another level altogether.

Respect helps us to deal with even those things we don't understand. There are people in the world who hold  views abhorent top me and most reasonable humanbeings, but, that said, I respect that those people arrived at that opinion via a process that I have either not been exposed to or seen in the same way.

If I can respect their choice or right to feel that way I can the START to understand and only then can I mount a defense or a movement to stop it's growth if I view it as a threat.

It is an awful fact that, if we had no extremes of views in the world we would become apathetic and thus vulnerable if such a threat appeared.

Let us all try to respect all of the views that people hold before making a decision. After all, if you show respect, people are more likely to start a dialogue. That in itself is a start.

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Re: What about Respect in Making a Difference?
2/8/2009 7:41:04 AM
Hello Iain,

Roger, Thank you for sharing your understanding with an excellent explanation.  You have a wonderful way of explaining
in plain and simple terms that I could relate to.

I have read with a lot of interest on this topic and I reckon
we have all agreed that Respect is a most important value.

What I have found really interesting, is we have all presented
different 'angles' - for want of a better word.. that has really
brought this one word into a life of it own, with meaning.

I reckon we all know and understand what Respect is, yet
it is quite a hard word to dissect - I remember during my
LPN theory training we had explain in detail what Values,
belief, morals, ethics, culture and also put them in a sentence.
This was a very hard task because many of the class had
the same problem that there is a fine line between all these
words that one can be part of another in the wrong sentence
context.  e.g. the sentence you use to explain a moral could
actually be a value or vice versa.


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Roger Macdivitt .

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Re: What about Respect in Making a Difference?
2/8/2009 8:00:44 AM

Amanda.

Yes, what you say is right.

People too have different meanings to the same "moral" words.

"discipline", for example, might be very important to two different people, one might view discipline to be to do with chastisement or imposing controls and another something they need to exercise and teach in able to achieve.

Same word, not just two different uses but two very different views of the word.

Again, respect for the different view is to start to understand. After all there are some who would view that their use of the stick to their children resulted in well behaved and good citizens. Respect the view but no need to agree.

Roger

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Re: What about Respect in Making a Difference?
2/8/2009 8:21:29 AM

Dear Nick,

Thank you for coming back and give us some interesting backgroung on Lao Tzu... always interesting these legends, isn't it?

Have a great Sunday,

Blessings,

Alain

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Re: What about Respect in Making a Difference?
2/8/2009 8:29:26 AM

Hello Dear Friend Thomas,

Happy to see you here and contributing... Thank you!

I certainly agree with the importance of kindness and how this is so closely related to Respect... In fact, I do have some problem seeing one without the other as if they were part of one another.

Blessings,

Alain

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