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Who Are Your Closest Friends?
10/15/2007 8:26:26 AM
Who are your closest friends? Good friends are hard to come by
in a world of superficial acquaintances and shallow relationships.
"Hanging with the crowd" can give us a false sense of belonging,
but often leaves us wounded and alone in times of trouble. Open,
honest, supportive, and loving relationships don't happen without
investment. Ask the Lord to lead you to close friends in his
family. Minister to and serve those around you. Listen to their
requests, faithfully upholding them in prayer. Spend time in
Christian service with other servant believers. Join yourself to a
Bible study or accountability group. As you do, trust that God will
give you that "stick-through-thick-and-thin-friend." Companions are
easy to find, but can be unreliable. Development of Christian
friends is an investment of effort and time, but they are friends
with whom we will share forever.                             
Precious God, I thank you for my friends (include the names of
friends). Please, dear Father, lead me into the life of someone
this week who needs me to be his or her friend. Bless all those who
read Today's Verse with a Christian friend that will help them in
their walk with you. Thank you so much, dear Father, for my
greatest friend, Jesus, in whose name I pray. Amen.
A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend
who sticks closer than a brother.
-- Proverbs 18:24
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Re: Who Are Your Closest Friends?
10/15/2007 9:32:13 AM

Hi Thomas,

This is so true.  Good friends are so hard to come by.  I thought I had met some here, but it turns out they are only false prophets. 

Now, my friend, I have a big decision to make.  At this time I have only disclosed the possible results of that decision to one person here.  Please say a prayer for me.

Blessings to you always,

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Re: Who Are Your Closest Friends?
10/15/2007 10:25:25 AM
Thomas,

What a great article.  I don't have much time today to be at Adland, but I had to check in on my friends.  I am very glad that I did and found this message.

Friends are very important in getting through tough times and in having someone to celebrate the good times.  Is not a good friend more precious than gold?  Yes!  That is why they should be hugged often.  :)

Thanks brother!

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Re: Who Are Your Closest Friends?
10/15/2007 10:45:30 AM

Thomas, thank you for the post.  Yes, friends (true friends) are hard to come by.  You have to be a friend to have a friend.  All my life I have had very close friends and always knew the ones I could trust and those I could not.  In later life, my sister was my best friend.  My Mama was always my best friend and she left this world in 1989.  I have freinds going all the way back to before school days and when we see each other it is like the years dissolve between us.  We are close friends but we see each very seldom but do stay in touch across the miles.

Since moving to Kansas, I have had a total of 5 close friends.  I moved away from where 2 of them lived and we don't ever see each other.  One sweet lady of 95 passed away. The 2 here in Burlington turned out to be disappointments.  I know lots and lots of people here and like all my church friends but unless you were born and raised here, it is very difficult to become close friends.  People are friendly but in a distant sort of way.  After my really close friend turned out to not be a close friend, I have not tried to develop anymore friendships here.  My husband and son are the closest I have.  I am fine with it, now I just be friends to all and have my favorites but we do not visit like my true friends would.  Actually, I enjoy having cyber friends - I know it is kinda artificial but as long as you know and accept, it can be a good thing.

You were 'preaching to us' and now I have taken the pulpit!  Sorry, the subject of friends is important and I treasure all mine. My friend, the Holy Spirit is always here and I have no doubts about that one.

Have a wonderful day,

Sara

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Re: Who Are Your Closest Friends?
10/15/2007 11:25:26 AM
Thank you for sharing Sara, please be my guest and preach, share what you just did and take the floor if you wish? Friends let friends do that ya know lol. Developing friendships is hard but one must learn to trust his or herself first to keep from getting let down. Always put out the hand no matter what, and i guarantee 9 out 10 someing good will come of it! God_bless you my friend and thank ou again for your openess. Enjoy your day .
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