I understand what you are going through. My daughter has 2 children, when her baby was about 8 months old, her ex-husband who denied the child was his, lied to her, sent her home to me, he would not allow her to take her children with her and a few months later gave her one days notice of her pending divorce date, she had no way to get up there to defend herself. she lost her children in the divorce because she was not there to be able to fight for them. Now a year and a half later, her ex-husband has quit his job, turned in his life insurance for the money and has an addictiopn to "Ice".He was able to afford a good lawyer, she had no job and no one ther to help. she is trying desperately to get her kids, she is in the same baot as you. so I am writing. I have no money to help her or you, (wish I did). But I care. Good luck,may god be on your side. Cynthia

That is sad...I hope she will aventually get her 2 children back....I am getting my son back at summer time and he is never leaving my site again...and I am defenatly going to file for a divorce and show him a thing or 2..I am tired of agreeing to him just to keep him happy when I am the one who should be happy. and be able to start a new family and give my children a family that they deserve.

My son is finally coming home.....But ofcourse it took for my son to act out to his father for him to realize he wanted to come home....The good news is he will be home the weekened of the may 20 the badnews is finding a way to come with the money to get him home....Just wanted to give all my friends an update...that my son is finally coming home...to be with his family.... You all have a good and wonderfull day..