Judy, What always surprises me is that I never get to hear these things till later. Also, I would be one of those who would welcome new people. I am not judgemental and treat everyone the same until I find differently. I don't spend my time avoiding trouble but it certailny doesn't follow me. If I can't appease somebody I say so. Part of my NLP and Hypnosis work involves negotiation. So many people who are troublesome have a problem and need treating in that way. Roger
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