Heh... Jack,
Sorry to disappoint you but Peter and I were NOT talking about the possibility of jousting with each other. Both of us are way too sensible for that. Exchange ideas yes, bash each other - no way!
Maybe others have read such connotation also. It ain't true folks.
Moreover, it was an ongoing discussion about respect which is something that TRUE martial arts is solidly based on.
Peter said, inter-alia:
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"I think that sometines respect is given purely on reputation, it is deserved, but given just because someone is who they are and represent what they do.
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That is also true. Respect actually has two mutual parts:
1<,b> - respect from actions personally witnessed or experienced,
2<,b> - respect from actions known or believed to have been undertaken.
In his comment above, Peter was referring to a point 2 type of respect.
Often when somebody has a point 2 type understanding of another person and does not receive that respect personally themself then there is discord and confusion. ie "Is this the person I felt that I knew?" Thoughts of betrayal or falseness emerge.
Allow me to give a brief example, one that our Canadian friends will readily identify with...
A man takes his son to the Ice Hockey to watch a Grand Final. They both support one of the teams.
The son idolises Joe Hockeystick. He is a "hero" to the boy because of his reputation.
By chance, as they are leaving the stadium, the son sees Joe Hockeystick. He rushes up to his hero, autograph book and pen in hand, full of expectation.
Joe Hockeystick turns around, sees the little fellow and roars: "Get lost twerp!"
That is discord. Expectation did not match reality.
Ooh, dare I say it? Some schemes and plans are exactly the same. Sorry, had to insert that just to keep this minimally on thread.
Peter, your comments regarding Chuck Norris and "Superfoot" (I think you mentioned "Bigfoot" - heh... he's the Yukon mountain champion! ...small joke) Wallace are most interesting. Chuck obviously met your every expectation and more. He even willingly introduced you to another icon. It's a great story.
I might come back and have more to say about this later. Unless, you guys think I have too much to say or it is too far off thread.
Gary Simpson
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