Hello Kathleen,
I've been reading a lot of the posts that have been
written in the different forums since the end of the
POTY contest and to say I'm appalled by some of the poor losers is an understatement and I'm not talking about the contestants.
For several months now I've been going back through the post history, usually first thing in the morning. During this time I became aware, of what I believe, were some very unethical goings on in several of these contests.
I'm of the opinion that a small group here have been
rigging most of the elections, through having
multiple accounts, to get their party elected or to keep one of their perceived enemies from winning. I believe a LOT of these accounts are in fictitious names. If you had gone through the New Members list as I do each day, I think you would have seen what I mean.
What made me really start noticing, what I believe has been going on, was one night I went to bed and the person that had the least votes of anyone in the POTW was announced the winner the next day instead of the person with the hefty lead. After this happened I began to watch more closely and sometimes I wouldn't even vote because I could see where it was headed.
As I watched this POTY election, from the beginning it was easy for me to see which way it also was headed, so I waited to cast my vote and that is why I chose to campaign for Peter Fogel by sending multiple PM's to people on my friends list. From what I've witnessed through being here for almost three years, I truly believe Peter is an honorable man. Perfect? No, but I believe a man of integrity and good character.
Sadly I've also been witnessing character assassinations in some of the forums against Peter and another friend of mine and one guilty party in particular will just not give up. Some of these were subtle and some blatant. I'm also of the opinion that the green eyed monster is at the root of most of the problems here.
Some things I've been taught all my life are:
1. When you sling mud at someone you usually end up getting more on yourself instead of the person you're slinging it at.
2. Don't air your dirty laundry in public.
3. The best Christian testimony we can give is the life we live.
I've never, in the time I've been here, ever gone to ALP administration to tattle on someone. I just don't believe you can get any more immature than that. I've had relatively few problems since I've been here. Nothing that I couldn't handle on my own.
I also don't make a habit of deleting people from my
friends list. I've only done that once and that was
because I was attacked personally in a public forum by a certain person.
At my age I could less whether anyone likes me or not. Just don't bother me. I am what I am. Just an opinionated, crotchety old lady who detests egomania and dishonesty.
These are some things that have been weighing on me and I just had to get them out.
I sincerely hope everyone has a glorious 2009.
Evelyn