Hi Myrna,
I think it's a Southern Thang. When I was growing up, Momma's people were from up in the Hills and most were Farmers. Times off from school, I got to stay with them and work the Farm. Breakfast was at 4:00-5:00 A.M., and it was always a Big'un. Lots of times we would have Grits and Home Fries. As for cooking them, there's really no secret to it. I just add a little Bacon or Sausage grease, and Salt & Pepper. Always make sure you're getting the real thing, in other words, Grits not Hominy
I've been to PA many times and thoroughly enjoyed myself. Some of the prettiest country I've ever seen, and some of the best cooking I've ever had was in PA, up in Amish Country or down around Hershey. Just keep me away from Pittsburgh. Believe it or not, the tastiest Grits I've ever had were from the Four Seasons Farm Bed, Breakfast and Barn, up around Lancaster, OH, home of that Scourge of the South, William Tecumseh Sherman. The following recipe is on their Website...
Southern Style Grits
3 (10 1/2 ounce) cans chicken broth
1/2 cup whipping cream
1 cup uncooked quick cooking grits
2 cups shredded sharp cheddar cheese
Combine broth & whipping cream in a large sauce pan; bring to a boil. Add grits, stir & return to a boil. Cover, reduce heat to a simmer for 5-7 minutes. Stir in cheese. Cool 10 minutes.
Served with farm fresh eggs, any style, thick, country bacon or freshly made sage sausage patties, home baked goods, fresh juice & fresh ground coffee.
I hope you'll try these, because your tongue will think it's already gone to Heaven. Also, for one of the most relaxing times you've ever had, you might want to check out the Bed, Breakfast, & Barn at the Four Season Farm. Just click the Link in the previous paragraph for Details, Directions, & Rates.
Have A Good'un,
Phil