My friends,
As gently as I can put it, I would like to submit that
anger is a personal choice.
No one makes me angry. I GET angry because of the way
I think. When I decide that what someone has said has
made me angry, I'm actually lying to myself. Anger is
my very own reaction; to actually be able to truthfully
claim that someone has made me angry is to admit that
that person has more power over my emotions than I have,
and that is one power I don't want to give away to
anyone! I already have enough trouble controlling my
emotions WITHOUT giving someone else that control.
I would sincerely appreciate it if everyone could take
this little post to heart when posting replies. If
something you see posted here is something you would like
to react to in anger, do count to ten first, before
posting.
A soft answer sets a much more productive mood for thought,
rather than reaction, and is much more educative than
a wrathful answer. Those who hold differing opinions from
our own need a quiet, reflectful and peaceful heart in
order to constructively meditate on the things we choose
to post.
I welcome all sides to any question or debate. That's what
makes life interesting, helps us to understand where
another person is coming from, and helps us to understand
why the world is in the state it's in.
God bless,
Dave
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