Aye....errr....uhmmm might not agree 100%
This forum, I admit, is perhaps one of the best in all of Adlands, perhaps even better than my own. It must be, I seem to post here more than there.
In light of this I would like to remind everyone that there are always two sides to every story. Just talk to two people going through a divorce and you will see it for sure, both parties will blame the other, he's a rotten S.O.B., she just doesnt get it, blah, blah, blah.
Everyday I see new names posting here and most of those have not been members of Adlands for a very long period of time, certainly not nearly enough time to read every thread in this forum, something that perhaps they should do. They might find a thread that already contains the information or thought they might wish to express. It might only take about a month to get through it all.
In regards to anyone here sending someone else any messages about netiqutte in the forum, while yes, that should fall into Linda's lap, I think that those that have been posting and participating in here for some time now have found a home and consider the others as a family of sorts. They therefore take it upon themselves to point out how things have gone up to now. Good intentions and all that. I know that there are times I wish I could have deleted threads I have seen some people start, but it is not my place in here to do that.
It sure would be nice if you could make a thread sticky so it was the first one all of the time, then the rules of engagemnet or posting could be the first topic to read, but that is not the case with the script that runs this forum.
Sometimes people might be a bit to sensitive to another persons comments, but if that is the case, it is more than likely due to not having been around long enough to get to know each regular and to understand each persons temperment.
Sometimes things will be posted that might hurt but they really don't, sometimes private messages will be sent thta are designed to hurt, but they don't. Sometimes the best advice ever will be given, it won't be followed (think Auto Surf). We each and everyone of us take away what we are willing to put into anything, this forum included.
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