"Talent" is a dangerous word.
To many, someone who can play a musical instrument or sing well has a "talent."
There is no doubt that some people possess attributes that make it easier to become successful, but that does not mean that every person who is successful has some innate "talent" that got them there.
In my full-time job, I am a school band director. It really bugs me when people say, "Oh, I can't sing! I have no talent!"
The truth is that they don't lack talent, they lack the BELIEF that they can do it! Someone told them when they were a kid that they were a horrible singer. Their natural aptitude may not lend itself well to singing, but that does not mean that they could not be a good singer if they truly wanted to do so.
Find the intellectual and physical things that "come naturally" to you and use those to meet your goals. Those things that "come naturally" are the areas that you have high aptitude, or if you prefer, "talent."
Don't give up on something just because someone else "makes it look so easy." They may have "talent," but they may just work really hard and learn everything the hard way, too.
For more on designing your own successful attitude, visit my Adland forum:
http://community.adlandpro.com/forumShow.aspx?ForumID=1372
Make it a good day,
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