Cheryl,
The straw technique is lovely. Personal, and self-instigated imagination-based techniques are the best. I will give this a try.
You may have read (or seen before) a technique I frequently use in many ways and for clients with very different problems. Go to YOUR SPECIAL CAVE in your mind. Find a box in the corner with Cheryl written on it in big letters. This box is full of things, sand or shells or treasure etc Whatever you want.
Open the box and start to take items out. These things represent EVERYTHING that you ever said, thought, heard, smelt, remembered etc. etc. If you have things that you carry that you don't like, put them into the box.
If you find things that you would like to get back then take them and hold them to you and absorb that thing/event etc.
You can get back memories or lose problems or change behavior etc.
This is a very powerful technique as the cave is only accessible to you as is the box.
The box is magical as no matter how many things you re,move it will always be full (imagine how many thoughts that it must hold).
Enjoy.
Roger
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