Look Peter,

I really understand you and share most of your thoughts shared here.

I must ask you IS ALL THIS WORTHY ?????

As I said in my first post here, IT IS JUST OUR OWN CHOICE SHALL WE SUPPORT THE BFA FORUM ANY MORE?

Things are as sad, as funny.

But they are NOT worthy of my time.

I do not like to swim in dirty waters. The BFA forum owner did what did. Not judges, LOL, I am 47 years old and many social mysteries for a long time don`t work in my mind.

So, WHAT ARE WE NOW WASTING THE TIME FOR ?

I won`t terminate my Adlander account as Vladimir did, but if I`ll be asked to do that - LOL - I`ll do.

Also, I will stop giving my support to ANY forum with the polls.

About Lilly - she is, I think, very grateful for missing to be rewarded this way. First, she is too busy. Second, any prize cann`t compensate sanity :) ... So, what are we talking about?

I am not married with anyone here. So, each one who is not pleasant and joyful to meet him/her, easily can be avoided.

Because I appreciate you as a normal and one - born without skills to be hypocrite and false :) .... I hope you`ll understand my words, not as an offensive and any kind of objection to you ... but as heartfelt and finite :).

Have a great day and please .... look at the brighter and worthy side over your shoulder - much joy can be there !

HUGS!

Branka

Dear Branka,

Thank you for your reply to my post. I'm not sure I'm happy with the way you started the post with "Look Peter" it could have easily been Look my meshugeneh friend but we'll over look that (this time :) ).

I like you agree with most of what you wrote. I won't belabor the point I disagree with cos as you say it is all passé, no longer important and worthy of either our time or the expended energies wasted on this issue.

I will admit that I had a guilty conscience for not speaking out an act that would have released and relieved me of the anger and disappointment I felt. Vladimir's post sparked a feeling of shame for not doing just that.

Well, I did what I felt had to be done and for me personally this is over and done with. Yes, being intelligent beings we pick and choose who we will associate with and interact with both on and off line. Those not worthy of our attention will definitely not receive it.

Lilly, our sweet meshugeneh Doc certainly deserved the accolades for her very worthy forum but neither she nor we need the BFA win to prove that it is the best. WE all know that and will continue enjoying ourselves there as we did till now. Our happiness and joy there is worth far more then the prize that is here today and gone tomorrow. What we have there will continue on and on from strength to strength.

The truth can't offend me Branka and I do appreciate your thoughts and we are in agreement in any case.

Hugs & Shalom,

Peter

P.S. Branka, please remember. There are 3 polls that are worthy of your time and support.

Peter, you're so off the mark.  I was merely making a comment. The judges did give Carla's forum good comments and ratings.

I am NOT now nor have I EVER been a judge for the Best Forum Award.  I have NO IDEA who they are.

Pat

Hi Pat,

If you say I'm off the mark then I stand corrected.

I'll not comment on the judging and ratings of the judges (even though there is a lot to be said about that) since as I said in my reply to Branka this issue is behind me and no longer interests me.

Have a pleasant day.

Shalom,

Peter