Greetings Pauline and Friends
I don't recall getting a notification to this forum but, I may have accidently deleted it. I try to at least look at notifications before I delete them but I must admitt, sometimes I just delete a page or two without looking. Especially if I have already spent a lot of time sorting the spam from the valid messages.
With regard to moderating forums, I despise the pratice. I have seen the delete button used for many purposes other than to eliminate spam or abusive comments. So, I won't bother to comment any further on this.
However, I would like to say this. We have had discussions like this many times before. It is always nice to hear everyones opinions but the problems never seem to diminish. In fact, the problem of spam continues to get worse here on a daily basis. What I see happening is that when we use the delete button to either eliminate an abusive post or to eliminate spam, we actually compound the problem. We drove the abusers out of a forum and into the other areas of the community where they are welcomed even less. Places like the friend invitations, other forums and even the beloved photo galleries. Also, deleting someones post seems to encourage them to go to your profile page and retaliate with a poor rating and more ugly comments.
At one time we had such a problem here that we created a committee to help us solve these problems. Unfortunately though, there was so little understanding of the true purpose and authority of the committee that it too was preceived as a problem. Committee members were being accused of making decisions based on personal agendas and bias. It never really became well known that the committee actually had no authority to make any decisions at all. The committee only researched complaints and presented their findings to Bogdan. Bogdan was solely responsible for all decisions regarding what action to take in each and every case.
Anyhow, here we are. Several months later. No more committee. Several more discussion forums on the topic and thousands of deleted posts and notifications and the problem has only gotten bigger.
I no longer delete right away. I never moderate my forums. I started a new forum where I copy and paste the objectionable messages I receive along with the name of the sender. This way I can help people get their message across. If someone chooses to promote themselves as a spammer, I now let everyone know who they are. If someone chooses to be abusive and disrespectful, I let people know. I believe in equal rights and freedom of speech. If someone has a valuable message I will help them get that message out. If someone wants to be a jerk, I will help them be the best jerk they can be.
I Miss Adlandpro, Don't You?
http://community.adlandpro.com/forums/thread/1019221.aspx
May a smile follow you to sleep each night
and be there waiting,,,,,,when you awaken.
Sincerely, Billdaddy
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