Hi Kathy,
Thank you for another wonderful post.
Without integrity we are all lost.
Your post reminds me of a time several
years ago when I was prompted to write
an ezine article after I received an email from an apparently disgruntled visitor who called me a "bloodsucking hype artist like everyone else." It made me think:
"Interestingly enough, the sender of the email had never bought anything from me, nor do I recall having any correspondence with him in the past. However, I had to ask myself the question, "Have I become so wrapped up in making money on the Internet that I have lost sight of the human element behind every click?"
"I hope not. I'm quite a gregarious fellow. I get more enjoyment out of visiting with and helping people than anything else. However, as I sit in front of my modem, banging away at the keys hour after hour, it's easy to understand how it could happen. In fact, that is the one major drawback to virtual businesses: lack of the personal touch."
The internet is a place where our integrity
really has the opportunity to be tested! In
person, we are faced with a real, live human
being looking right at us, perhaps right
into the "windows of the soul," and there
is much more pressure on us to be honest
and caring.
When we sit at a keyboard pounding letters
and numbers into cyberspace, it's much
easier to pretend to be what we're not.
Sad to say, a lot of people, especially
those "first-timers" on the internet, are
getting burned by people who have forgotten
that their lack of integrity really is
affecting real, live people who have placed
their trust in someone else's hands.
What is happening, entirely because of a
MASSIVE loss of integrity all over the
world, is that it has become very much
more difficult to build ANY business, online
AND off.
People are tired of being burned. They long
to trust someone, but are tired of being
hurt! They are becoming hardened and
disillusioned with the word, "friendship,"
which is tragic.
If we all decided to be a friend to each
person we meet, what a difference that would
make! I'm not talking about reciprocal
relationships - I'll be your friend if
you'll be mine - but about just being a
friend yourself. This takes real integrity,
which I believe is unconditional.
To be a real friend requires that you decide
to unconditionally love another, requiring
nothing from them, but doing whatever you
can for them. That requires real integrity.
None of us are perfect, but we should never
stop trying. My personal belief is that
we should trust God to make us better and
be ourselves. (faking it goes against the
whole point of integrity anyway:) )
Thank you once more for bringing this up,
Kathy!
God bless,
Dave
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