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Practical Parents
6/25/2007 3:25:10 AM

 

I grew up with practical parents who had been frightened by the
Great Depression in the 1930's. A mother, God love her, who washed
aluminum foil after she cooked in it, then reused it. 

She was the original recycle queen, before they had a Name for it...
A father who was happier getting old shoes fixed than buying new ones.



Their marriage was good, their dreams focused. Their best
friends lived barely a wave away. I can see them now, Dad in trousers, 
tee shirt and a hat and Mom in a house dress, lawn mower in one
hand, and dish-towel in the other. It was the time for fixing things a
curtain rod, the kitchen radio, screen door, the oven door, the hem in
a dress. Things we keep. It was a way of life, and sometimes
it made me crazy.

 



All that re-pairing, eating, renewing, I wanted just once to be wasteful. Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant you knewt here'd always be more.

eating



But then my mother died, and on that clear summer's night, in the
warmth of the hospital room, I was struck with the pain of learning
that sometimes there isn't any more. Sometimes, what we care about
most gets all used up and goes away...never to return. So...
While we have it...it's best we love it... And care for it.... And fix it when it's broken..... And heal it when it's sick.

 




This is true... For marriage.... And old cars.... And children with
bad report cards..... And dogs and cats with bad hips.... And
aging parents.... And grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it,because we are worth it. Some things we keep. Like a best
friend that moved away or a classmate we grew up with.



There are just some things that make life important, like
people we
know who are special.... And so, we keep them close!  I
received this
from someone who thinks I am a "keeper," so I've sent it to the
peopleI think of in the same way... Now it's your turn to send this
to those people who are "keepers" in your life.




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Judy Smith

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Re: Practical Parents
6/25/2007 6:42:46 AM

Thanks for the awesome memories, Nick. 

 This is a keeper and one to pass on for sure.  You are a "keeper" my friend.  You keep coming up with the most awesome stuff!!

Have a supercalafragilisticexpialadocious day!

Judy

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Re: Practical Parents
6/25/2007 6:56:23 AM
Thank you Nick,

What, trying to make us cry?  Great advice!  Thanks!
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Re: Practical Parents
6/25/2007 8:54:33 AM

Yes Nick, How things have changed. This is a great reminder of how wonderful times were, when neighbors were neighbor and children understood their place in the hierarchy of things. Thanks again.

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Re: Practical Parents
6/25/2007 10:17:06 AM

Nick: As you can imagine by my age things were different and the community,parents etc. were practical.

Thanks, Bruce

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