Created by Nicole on Mar 17, 2007
Category: Children's Rights
Region: United States of America
Target: Child Abuse Prevention
Description/History:
My
son Joshua was shaken 10 - 15 times on January 1st 2006. He has
suffered severe permanent brain injury; everything except his brain
stem was permanently damaged. He had two front sub-dural hematomias,
and an old bleeding the back of his brain. He also suffered a skull
fracture, and severe retinal bleeding. The retinal bleeding was so
severe that Josh is now only able to see shadows.
A feeding tube had to be surgically placed into his belly, due to the
injury leaving him unable to coordinate swallowing with breathing.
Joshua also ended up having two Craniotomies, and needed a Ventricular
shunt placed into his head. The shunt is a tube with a one way valve
that drains all reoccurring extra fluid from his head into his bladder
so he can urinate it out. This way he doesn’t need to have doctors
continuously going into his head, and giving him opportunities to get
infections. Joshua’s overall prognosis is grim, doctors predict that he
will keep getting ill due to his weak immune system, and will never
live beyond his twentieth birthday. No Mother should have to look at
her child and know that her days with him are numbered. Joshua was
injured on January first 2006; it’s now fifteen months later and he is
eighteen months old. He was recently evaluated to be at a two-three
month developmental level.
He cannot hold up his own head, sit, roll over, stand, walk, talk, or
see anything more than shadows. Doctor suspect that Joshua will be
frozen at this level and may not develop any farther. Even though
Joshua didn’t die, he was still robbed of his life. He has lost the
chance to enjoy playing with his sister and brother. I don’t get to
tuck my baby in at night, because he needs 24 hour nursing care and has
to live in a nursing facility. He will never be able to speak, I will
never hear him say “I love you mom”. I will never get the chance to see
him get married, and he will never have the joy of having children. He
has also been robbed time for nurturing; I can not play with my baby.
He can not grow up in a loving home; instead he has to grow up with
nurses and doctors. Suffering trying to do the simple things, like
picking up his arms, and holding things. No mother should ever have to
see her child on a respirator, evaluate her child’s quality of life,
make a decision to sign a Do Not Resuscitate document, or have their
child be given last rights for an injury that could have been
prevented.
This is way I'm proposing "Joshua's Law." Joshua's Law would make all
convicted child abusers become nationally registered. We have a right
to know who is safe around our children and who is not!
Petition:
Their
is currently no law that states child abusers have to be nationally
registered. Please help me make Joshua's Law a reality. How would you
feel if your child was shaken to death and someone came up to you and
said "I know how you feel, he / she shook my baby too."
We urge Congress to pass this law as soon as possible.
The Joshua's Law petition to Child Abuse Prevention was written by Nicole and is hosted free of charge at GoPetition.com.