Hi Kenneth,
I appreciate this information. I recently witnessed in a forum such
spam. Dave Cottrell handled it in a way that I wish everyone would...
respectful and informative. He politely informed the spammer that what
he did was spam and that he would not tolerate it in his forum. Then
lastly warned this poster that he would report his spamming to Adland
officials. Dave did this in a very polite but firm way that obviously
this person learned a quick lesson. Haven't seen any more of their
spam since. AND... I didn't have to read some ranting between a group who do not like spam and those who do not "believe it was" in that forum. :) It happens!
People are always going to make mistakes. This world is not full of common sense. There is never going to be a perfect community no matter how well the Terms of Service is worded. It takes kind, gentle and
patient mentors or teachers to help them know that what they did was
not appropriate. When I get spammed, I take the time to message this
person and let them know that I am deleting their post because it does
not fit the subject of my thread. Sometimes I get an apology,
sometimes not. I have even been blocked by two who didn't appreciate me deleting their spam. We cannot control everyone's actions.
I agree with you that the time wasted in such issues can add up, but using this time to teach others in the community would eventually create the appropriate mannerism abroad. Doing nothing or only deleting these spams will not solve this issue. Of course there are going to be those who don't care what you say or do. If we all handle the spamming appropriately (warn, inform and report), they will eventually be in contact by the Adland officials and we won't hear from them ever again.
I believe the cure to this problem is being respectful to each other no matter if that person is a veteran or newbie.
Let's don't let this eat us all up with the bad vibes.
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