Who knows what anyone will experience in thier own life. Terrible things can happen. I read that 30% of the worlds population has been abused in thier childhood. I rekon the real figure is about 70%. Probably more. Most people dont realise just how strong they really are. It takes a lot of crap to realise this. And you dont really need twenty years of psycho the rapy. All of a sudden the light from god shines upon you, and you become empowered. A warrior. I experienced it myself. I nearly died several times, and life was hell due to defamation and group stalking harrasment. You will find interesting papers on group stalking harrasment if you do a search on the internet. Somehow I found the strength to carry on, I cried out to god, and he saved me from the murderers. He sent angels to help me. Of late things have improved to the point that I am back in business and making a difference. You must not let the storms grind you down. You must not let the terrorists phase you. You must never give up. You must have faith in yourself and faith in god. Soldier on!

Michael,

I am so glad that God has given you peace and purpose.

For some however there is a great confusion. I have helped folk who have been brought up in caring Christian homes where the care and concern was so strong that in itself it acted like abuse.

I have helped people who really genuinely believed that the awful things they were doing to somebody was a result of God's request.

Whether, as some do, you believe that the bad things that people do are directed by the devil or that mental health problems are just another thing to endure during our short and imperfect time here your faith is important to you and your willingness to witness that is what God requires of us all who feel his love.

Continue to gain faith and strength and cotinue to offer an example to those who flounder in darkness and ignorance.

Roger

WOW Roger, now thats a mouthful.
Continue to gain faith and strength and cotinue to offer an example to those who flounder in darkness and ignorance.

Boy could I say alot to all your stuff, I blame alot on the Parents,If the parents are so filled with hatred then the children grow up images of there parents.I know people like that,they pretend to be good out side but behind closed doors there monsters. horrible, horrible nightmare monsters,omg I could go on and on.

thanks for all your advise, it is much appreciated, but my friend wants to know how you stop all the terrible nightmares?
Kathy Hamilton/simikathy.com

Hi Kathy,

Stopping the horrible nightmares is something that could be approached from many angles. It's all very well to give advice, even if genuinely given. I can give some but is it right? All I know is what has worked for others. Using yesterdays experiences to make a new future only works if we live for NOW.

Take the example of somebody who is told to go and pray about it.

That person may go away into a corner with no real belief just a desparation. They may say all the right words and the expect a result, and might get one, or might not. They concentrate their salvation upon tomorrow and hope. But as many of us know, although I believe that God answers our prayers, His answers are not always clear or what we want. God's plan may be different to ours. We often remain where we were, looking for the answer.

The best thing that your friend can do is give no importance to the reason or content of those nightmares. It is what we do today that counts. Yesterday merely gives us the reason for our present position, the answer is not in yesterday but in today. Hope springs eternal but hope must be for now.

Believe, feel and think about a future which contains none of yesterdays pain. Don't search for cures to yesterdays ills but look for todays life-giving solution. What you do today determines whether you move on or stay in the past.

If you fell in a vat of indelible dye all the scrubbing in the world would not remove it BUT decide today that you can't remove the effects but you can ignore them, you will find one day that the last trace has gone and you've moved on.

This CAN BE DONE. There are various routes, but it CAN be done.

Roger 

 

Wow, Roger, I am going to come back and hit on some of your thoughts I just have things to do right now,picking up girls.I willcome back to this but really great things you wrote,check back tonight or tomorrow,Thank you Roger.
Kathy/simikathy.com