Hello Nick
This is an interesting topic and one which deserves our attention.
There are people all around us who are different from the norm and I believe that it is human nature to be curious. When one stares at another who is different than themselves, I really don't think there is any ill intentions meant. I know that from a personal viewpoint, I have found myself looking a little more closely at some who look " different" and I do this with mixed emotions. My first emotion though, is one of wanting to reach out to this person. I want to know more about them and if it is needed, I would like to help them in some way. I think that a lot of the curiosity comes from just knowing that that person is experiencing life from a very different perspective than I am and I really want to know more about their experience. I have in fact, found myself drawn to those with disabilities and deformities and many times have made it a point to get to know this person. Invariably, I have found that they did indeed have a lesson in life to share with me or anyone else who wants to understand life from their perspective. These people who are so different from us can truly teach us a lot and I have found them to be very anxious to share their lives with others. So, I would suggest that the next time any of you find yourself " starring at someone different ", don't stop there. Go up to this person and introduce yourself and show them that it is more about curiosity than about any ill feelings or disgust. I guarantee that you will walk away with a deeper sense of gratitude for what you have in life. A lesson in life that will last a lifetime.
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