Hello Venerina,

Thank you very much for your post and I have to agree with everything you said. You are absolutely right...no one deserves to be hurt, and we do not need people to add insult to injury on top of it all!

Sometimes people can be so clueless as to what they are doing with the things that they say!

Take care and God Bless,

Marilyn

Hello John,

I started this post because sometimes people do not stop and think about things that say, write, or do... and how they can hurt other people. I just felt like we all need a reminder from time to time on how to treat people properly.

Sometimes people need to have alot more sensitivity towards others when they know that they are hurting already.

Take care and God Bless,

Marilyn

 

Hello Marilyn :-)

Unfortunately I couldn't be too much around lately! And I'm so sorry for this; I can only hope this is going to have and end some day soon!

This is a very important, true and meaningful topic! Flash news LOL!

I couldn't help myself thinking of every reply posted here!

First of all, I so very much hope this has nothing to do with anything happening around these days! ... and people are behaving themselves LOL, like some good kids, even if as I've read Mr. Common Sence has died! LOL As far as I could see, after my shourt tour around, things are great here!

Second, and also very important, I consider people's feelings to be the most important! They make us humans! and as most of my friends said before, no one deserve to be hurt!

I will stop here by now, wishing you the best and a wonderful weekend!

I hope we are not going to sky! I haven't yet get out my boots from the closet! LOL
In the morning I was still in my suite and now I have to get my coat and fur LOL

With friendship,
Anamaria

Hello Jenny,

Thanks very much for a great post...I like what you said and I have to agree with you 100%. Very well said my dear friend!

Take care ,

Love, Marilyn

Hi Marilyn.

Expressing my feelings has never been my strong suit.
I fail at this task miserably. Every time I seem to get mis understood
because I generally have no expression on my face and in my
tone of voice, I come off to some as being cold.

I feel things so very deeply, no one but my wife Susan knows this.
Over the years, she has taught me this strange alien world of
emotion.

The feelings come out when you suppress them and usually not
in a good way. I guess the number one reason for hiding my
feelings is because I don't want to hurt anyone. I beat myself
up over this for years.

To feel or not to feel that is a tough question. If you express
then you run the risk of someone misinterpreting your
feelings and somehow get thier own feelings hurt.

God forbid this to happen, but if you don't express the feelings
then someone may also get thier feelings hurt. You are not
giving them the reaction they expected.

This is a hard subject for me, I don't understand emotions
enough to solve it. What I do know is that emotions are things.
They have a life of thier own. They can not be logicaly
explained and there are only two choices in dealing with them:
1. Express your feelings, 2. Not express your feelings.

Robert