Marilyn, In Aussie terms you would be described as "a good scout"  That means a fair dinkum decent honest sheila who cares about others. No worries!

              Good onya Marilyn        Downunder Dave.

I  started a topic on an opportunity. Few friends visited it and one of them responded this:

Thanks, see you around I don't think.



What should you do after that? I haven't done anything yet but I found out that this person his psychological ups and downs. I have at least one Power Member to witness this.

A month ago he left all my forums without a reason.

Warm Regards
Georgios
PS I keep all such messages stored

Helloo Marilyn!

You are so right!  Way too often I see that people come into a forum and their ego wants to 'outdo' everyone else.  It's okay to disagree with other forum members......but one needs to be respectful.

I see people post these HUGE sparkly pics and say nothing but "Thanks for the invite!"  (Come on people.....his is AdLand...NOT ArtLand!) 

I also see some who just blast out some sort of offer to whatever the 'flavor program of the week' is for them.  Well, thats not gonna get you any brownie points either.......

If you're going to post - then you should be leaving a comment about the topic of the post. 

NUFF SAID!

One last thought however......as forum owners, their is a solution to this type of annoyance.  Simply delete the post.

Georgious:

One thing to remember:  If someone says "NO" to your opportunity, they are'nt saying No to you - just the opportunity.  So, you sholdn't feel offended.

However, when someone repsonds in a negative way......by returning the 'joust' (no matter how coridal you are about it).....one simply adds energy to the whole negativity of the situation.  I simply ignore these people for they are not the one's you want on your team in the 1st place.

Ignore.....and delete

My 2 cents...........