Just have to use your forum to answering Sherri. I know you are hurting but it is time to move on. We are not suggesting ignoring common sense and responsibility. You are not the first nor will you be the last to get hurt on the internet. However, to not risk something is to become idle. Edison did not quit after thousands of tries to make the incondescent bulb. Re-read Arthur's statements each day. Here's something else to keep you level headed in your decisions. http://community.adlandpro.com/forumShowPost.aspx?PostID=278175 Suggest you find some good mentors here at Adlandpro. Don't be afraid to have people prove what they are offering. Wishing you the best.