Hi, Cheri,
Another great forum you have invited me to!
Many people forget that it is not so long ago that it was a matter of course to be self sufficient.
There was no social welfare programme.
There was no pension for retirement.
There was nobody else to rely on except yourself and your family.
The universal rule was (I paraphrase Mr MiCawber) -- $1 earned and 99c spent = contentment but $1 earned and $1.01 spent = penury.
Look around now. Young people are expected to earn $1,000 a month but live as though they are earning $5,000!
Who started that?
Who made people feel inadequate if they didn't have the latest, biggest or best?
Face it Ladies and Gentlemen -
WE DID!
The marketers of the world introduced products that people had never before aspired to.
They created products to cure problems that people were not aware they had - until the marketers 'educated' them.
They used advertising techniques that challenged the virility of a man if his family did not own a solid silver, left hand thread, automatic, universal belly button fluff remover.
Let me pass on my father's wisdom in family budgeting.
Apart from staples, anything that 'needed' to be bought had to be subject of an appointment when the family was to go and buy it.
You will be surprised how many of these 'needed' things did not get bought because, by the time of the appointment, we couldn't remember why we needed it.
My father successfully supported a family of three children, a stray child he rescued (you could in those days, just after the war) and our grandparents on the grand total income of less than $9 a week.
While I was in the RAF, my allotment from my pay was twice his weekly wage - and he saved every penny of it because there was nothing he needed to buy simply because he had the money.
Where did it all go wrong?
When did we all become dependents?
(Yes. Yes. I can hear the chorus now "Why are you such an old coot?")
Regards
Arthur
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