Hello Tracy
Yes it is true. Suicide is very painful. Often more painful to the survivors than to the victims. There are many painful emotions invilved here. The sense of loss is obvious but another emotion that is often overlooked is the sense of guilt. Many times, the loved ones left behind feel responsible in some way for the suicide. They feel that they should have or could have done something to prevent it. The truth of the matter is, most of the time there was nothing else that could have been done. In some cases there are tell tale signs of problems that could lead to suicide but even a trained professional can miss these.
I think that it is very important for survivors of suicide to seek help in dealing with their feelings and emotions. Besides seeking professional help, it can be helpful to seek out others who have dealt with a similar situation. Sometimes just sharing thoughts and feelings in a group setting with others with this experience can be a big help.
Tracy, if you or your friends ever feel they need someone to talk to or possibly even some professional advice, I would be happy to direct them to any resources that am aware of.
Thank you for sharing your story here with us Tracy. It is very important that people learn to talk about these things. It is through this sharing of experience and knowledge that we become more able to prevent such tragedies in our lives.
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