“I DIGRESS” ![conversation-300x231.jpg](http://community.adlandpro.com/UserContent/onyralu/ImageUploads/conversation-300x231.jpg) The beauty of conversation is that one subject generally leads to another. It is rather like a good ping pong game. Once you get the ball going it is invigorating keeping it in play. You almost want to hang onto the moment and hope it lasts for a long time. Then there is the moments when you are with someone who is more then able to carry the conversation all by themselves. They very much want you there to listen to them but they do not want so much to have your input into what is being said. They may stop long enough to ask how you are or what is going on in your life but once you start telling them they take what you say and use it to direct the conversation back around to themselves. There is also those who “digress”. I knew a lovely gentleman who was talented at this. His train would start out on one track and get sidetracked by many many other side tracks. On his way to one point he would think of another and start talking about that which would bring up yet another and off we would go and so on until his original point was almost forgotten. What was funny and almost endearing is that he was well aware of this habit and after much digression would chastise himself about digressing. I have honed my skills as a good listener because of these type of people. I consider myself a fairly okay conversationalist, predominately, however there are times my train leaves the station knowing the track and destination but somewhere while I am talking the destination gets lost. Leaving me saying “there was a reason I was telling you all this” and looking confused. Thankfully my family is use to my train jumping the tracks. :-) Conversation stimulates our minds and emotions, connects us spiritually, entertains us, informs us and helps us interact socially. The great secret of succeeding in conversation is to admire little, to hear much; always to distrust our own reason, and sometimes that of our friends; never to pretend to wit, but to make that of others appear as much as possibly we can; to hearken to what is said and to answer to the purpose. Benjamin Franklin
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