Hi Luis and Michael,
These two stories are horrible. I can't imagine how devastating they must be. However I do know you pay for your transgressions, one way or another. But, I also believe that it doesn't matter how bad someone hurt you, you need to forgive that person or persons. Not so much for them, but the most important part is what forgiveness does for you. Forgiveness is a real blessing to you.
Why I am saying these things, well about 7 years ago I was in a bad car accident. In my time in a home, while I was healing, my pastor said to me "Myrna you know you have to forgive him," I thought about it , in fact I didn't think about much else for several days.I had to forgive this man who went though a stop sign and put me here! Why should I forgive him? After a few months of thinking about it, I forgave him and it was amazing how much better I felt. You know that man never knew how I was feeling about him, he just went on with his life. So I was the one suffering, not him. I know now in my heart of hearts that forgiveness is the biggest thing we can do for ourselves. The ball is in our court, no one else.
Here is the easiest way to learn forgiveness that I have ever heard, everyone should use it daily. Just repeat time and time again these simple words. "I sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you, I love you". That is all there is too it. Very helpful
Yes the new age is coming, hey folks it will be so wonderful. This is the year 2012 Blessings, Myrna
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