Hi Donna,
I completely see that in my cats also! The older one, even though smaller, is very bossy. Her name is Meowzers and I think she doesn't like women, she likes the guys and hates me...LOL. She was pre-owned and maybe had bad experiences with a female owner before. I always wonder what they'd say if they had 5 minutes to talk.
My mother-in-law has tons of cats and shows pictures of them to everyone, tons of pictures, and she gives them all human names!!

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