Hi Jayson,
What a great subject!
I always have had problem to be adjusted with the lessons I use to give to Luka (why not be angry and how to win the battle with an anger; how to recognize or reveal message hidden behind any fear; how to be sincere and heartfelt, when some calls me over the phone and I am not ready to respond to that call, don`t like to offend and cann`t expect to be understood by that person .... and at least, how to "upgrade" the social and emotional intelligence without ceasing sincerity ...
Hm ... HMMMMM .... I was actually growing up with him, learning the same time when was teaching.
So seldom my reactions were different than my words ... what was for that moment easier ... but always followed by Luka`s questions and my feeling guilty.
Also, when my clients come to me, having only a huge eyes ( when expect to hear the words that would be an ultimate hope for them) ... Uh, that uses to be unpleasant. I am very bad with the lies .... and beside that ... WHO AM I TO KILL SOME ULTIMATE HOPE? But then WHO AM I TO GIVE THE FALSE HOPE? I never give the false hope ... just I say : go ahead, what I know and work - can`t help you, but seek and you`ll find ... someone surely would be there to help you.
Jayson, I think there`s no one single man without passing those "guilty pleasures" games.
You always have such an interesting themes and I enjoy them. Thank you very much!
Branka
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