Hi Kathleen,
Thank you understanding, I appreciate you sharing.
I am the youngest of four, one sister and 2 brothers. I only hear from my eldest brother Philip who lives in Australia, but fairly spasmodically.
My family did not see me as an adult even after I turned 21 onwards. The times that I entered a room that my mother and siblings had been deep in conversation about something and they suddenly stopped, like whatever I may hear would scare my young mind for ever!
In the town where I spent the first 6 years of my life and my sister still lives, the towns people all knew she had two young brothers but did not know there was me. In the town where I spent the latter years of my life, knew that I had two older brothers but did not know I had a sister! It was not from me because I was happy to tell anyone that I had one when asked.
I have jumped into help my brothers and sisters whenever they have needed me. I have been taken advantage by them too, never saw it coming because one does not expect your own family members to rip you off and steal from you.
I put that behind me and tried to let sleeping dogs lie. I do not know what I did no one is telling me. Unless they are mad at me because I am divorced from my ex.. well my sister is a divorcee too!!?
Amanda
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