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About Honesty
2/24/2009 2:15:18 PM
Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in someone else's eye and
pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say,
"Let me take the speck out of your eye," when all the time there is
a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of
your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck
from the other person's eye (Matthew 7:3-5 TNIV).

Firefighters at a fire station in Nagoya City, Japan, are a little
embarrassed this week. Seems they're responsible for burning down a
building.

Their own firehouse, as a matter of fact.

Everyone was out answering multiple alarms, it seems -- including the
firefighter who was cooking dinner for the rest of the crew. In a hurry
to answer the call of duty, he apparently forgot to turn off the stove.
Ten trucks from other stations responded to put out the fire.

Seiji Hori, spokesperson for the Nagoya City Fire Department,
articulated the embarrassment they feel about the incident: "We are an
institute that should be in a position to educate people about fire, so
we are extremely sorry that such an incident happened."

He added that they might consider ordering out for dinner from now on.

In fairness to those firefighters, they're embarrassed about their
mistake. They see the inconsistency. Imagine, though, that they didn't.
What would you think if the next time they went out on a call, they
berated a homeowner for using a faulty space heater or burning a candle
too close to the curtains or overloading an outlet? What would you say?
"Physician, heal thyself?" "Practice what you preach?" You'd see the
inconsistency, even if those firefighters didn't. "Wait, didn't you
burn down your own station with your carelessness?" you might
rightfully ask. And you probably wouldn't hear anything they had to say
very well, even though they might be right.

A police officer who commits a crime, a doctor whose negligence harms
or kills a patient, a judge who takes a bribe, a broker who steals his
client's money are people who especially should know better than to do
the things they do. They don't see the inconsistency, or more likely
they see it and choose to live with it. Like those firefighters in
Japan, they should be embarrassed. For whatever reason, they're not.
They continue to do things that contradict who they say they are and
what they're supposed to be doing. And when everything comes to light,
they're left with no credibility. Who trusts a hypocrite, after all?

To point accusatory fingers only at others, though, is to miss the
point entirely.

Jesus probably knew first-hand what it was like to have sawdust in his
eye. I'm fairly sure that Joseph didn't use safety goggles. So when he
wanted to address the human tendency to pass judgment on others while
giving ourselves a pass, the sawdust metaphor would have been a natural
one. Imagine two carpenters working. One gets a little sawdust in his
eye. It hurts, his eye starts tearing, his vision is obscured. His
buddy notices that speck of sawdust, points it out, and appoints
himself "Official Sawdust Remover." But, he never even mentions his own
little problem: he has a whole plank hanging out of his eye. The
absurdity of the situation makes the point: the carpenter with the
plank needs to deal with own problem before he starts pointing out his
buddy's sawdust issues.

Who trusts a hypocrite?

What is it about us that wants so desperately to find the faults in
each other? How many marriages have been left dead and cold by husbands
and wives who carefully note every sin of their spouses and are blind
to their own? How many churches have been split by self-appointed
"guardians of truth" diligently searching out doctrinal specks in
others without noticing how their own lack of love and grace blinds
them? How many people who feel the tug of the Holy Spirit on their
hearts have been pushed away from Jesus forever by fault-finding
Christian Pharisees whose own sins are secret only to themselves? How
many preachers have battered their churches into submission for every
speck in their lives while remaining unable to acknowledge the
splintered, rotting lumber of their own sins and shortcomings?

It's easier, isn't it? That's the reason, when we're honest, for our
tendency to prefer magnifying glasses turned on others to mirrors
turned on ourselves. There's something satisfying, gratifying, in a
twisted sort of way, about discovering dirt on other people. It's the
reason people buy the publications in the grocery store checkout line,
and it's the reason other people can look down on them for it. And it's
the reason hypocrisy still lives in the church.

That's what Jesus called it, of course: Hypocrisy. I know, it's kind of
an ugly word. It's pretending, play-acting, and the only way to
eliminate hypocrisy is to end the show and take off the mask, make-up,
and costume that we've used to camouflage our sins and pretend to be
something we're not. It's to admit that we're only playing at being
perfect, and that we're no better than the people at whom we've
delighted in pointing fingers.

There are times, of course, when letting something someone has done go
by unchallenged can have deadly consequences. Sometimes love demands
that we speak up and speak out, that we take someone aside and call him
on something we've seen. But when those times come, they should not
cause me joy. And if those times seem to come often, then maybe I
should ask why I feel compelled to judge others so often. "In the same
way you judge others, and with the measure you use," Jesus says, "it
will be measured to you" (Matthew 7:2). The truest measure of my
attitude toward others is whether or not I would want God to judge me
by the standard I'm using.

Who trusts a hypocrite? So by God's grace, we'll pay attention to the
planks in our own eyes. By his strength, we'll remove them. By his
mercy, we'll receive his forgiveness and healing. And by his Spirit,
we'll be able to help others do the same. Not as superiors handing down
the verdict on their sins, but as fellow-strugglers who are just as
dependent as they are on the love of a faithful God poured out in the
One who took our sins on Himself.

When we warn someone about leaving the stove on, let us never forget
that we've burned down our share of buildings.

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Amanda Martin-Shaver

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Re: About Honesty
2/24/2009 2:51:10 PM
Hello Tom,

Thank you for an excellent topic, you have nailed on the
head with everything you have written and I agree with you.

Who trusts a hypocrite?
So by God's grace, we'll pay attention to the planks in our own eyes.
By his strength, we'll remove them. By his mercy, we'll receive his forgiveness and healing. And by his Spirit, we'll be able to help others
do the same. Not as superiors handing down the verdict on their sins,
but as fellow-strugglers who are just as dependent as they are on the
love of a faithful God poured out in the One who took our sins on
Himself.

When we warn someone about leaving the stove on, let us never
forget that we've burned down our share of buildings.



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Re: About Honesty
2/24/2009 3:05:38 PM

Thomas,

  Good theme! ^5

I have time to say this

The faults you see in someone else are "YOUR OWN FAULTS"

It falls in the category - It takes one to know one.

I've thought of this for years and it's so very true. I've noticed how things/people can be viewed so differently by individuals.....now I understand why.

Thanks Thomas

Blessings

Valerie Clavin

Hugs = Priceless

Glimpse

PS. Our need to judge others is caught up in our EGO

 

 

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Thomas Richmond

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Re: About Honesty
2/24/2009 5:45:34 PM
Thanks Amanda and Val for your comments and your replies, i put this out in this forum for a reason, for one remember those old words? Give an Inch they take a mile? not to mention being hacked by one of your own members at one of my websites can take a toll on the outcome in having the kind of faith God wants from me, i dealt with trust issues before and thought never of having to go through that again, very depressing , specially for a man like me. So anyway enough crying, i put this out to get some reactions of course and learn from them. Thanks again guys, much love to you. :)
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Re: About Honesty
2/24/2009 9:26:46 PM
Hello Tom,

I am sorry to read that you were hacked and I reckon
I can truly understand the violation you feel with this
person whom did it.  Because it is a violation against your
person for your personal stuff - no different than if this
person broke into your home and stole, touched and scrutinized everything, in your drawers and cupboards then broke what he/she did not want.

It is not so much the break in, but the touching, tampering
and the fact they could do it, just because they can..

It is these feelings I also suffer from when virus, trojans,
worms etc are put around the internet for no better reason
than to destroy people's enjoyment, comfort and faith using the world wide net.  It also costs meager bucks to fix all
these hacker attacks to keep ahead of them.

Amanda


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