I had to come back to say Bless you Myrna! I worked for a short time at a senior recreation center in Santa Monica Ca - many of the seniors came to play card games and oh how some of them could dance on Monday dance day when the band came. I will always remember Pearl. She had been crying for at least 20 years over the loss of her dear husband. Well Pearl did not want help with her 'problem' and she and some of the others were happy just to have someone sit with them for a few minutes to break the monotony of their thoughts. So I applaud you for talking with him. I don't think you need to do more, just wait for the light to start coming on in his face when he sees you coming. Then he will start to notice the days and the times when you are expected.
Come back and let us know how he is doing, his name and be sure to let him know that people out here care about him.
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