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Well done Kathy Your friend Kees

Hello Clay, Thank you for asking,First if there was a moderater I would report it to them, but since we do not have one I would report it to the staff to moderate it, even then there are guide lines which they give the benefit of the doubt to the offender, or What I would just do is tell them you appreciate there opinion and if they would like to discuss it they can email you in private so you do not get off track on the subject of the forum and that it doesnt discourage others from participating in the forum.No one likes to see or read heated conversations, yes its always better to try and defuse the situation. but if there was a moderater watching they could let the person know it was innapropriate behavior, but there really isnt anything anyone can really do, thanks clay, I guess we will just have to educate others on proper conduct.Kathy martin

Hi Kathy and my Adland friends, Conflict, great subject, I could write for hours on the subject, however I wont. I love conflict, the confrontation the challenge? if I win (fairly) then I feel good and justified, if I lose then I learn by it and take on board what I have learnt so that next time I take control of the situation. I realize that many don't like confrontation's or conflict, if you think smartly, clearly and are prepared to listen to what the other person is saying? (with out interuptions) there is a good chance that once the person has had thier say (got it off thier chest so to speak)will calm down enough for you to have your say and that inturn changes the whole situation you are now in charge and what happens next is up to you, you can either blow your chance? or win. I have been in several situations where I have come in to conflict with armed angry men. (many of whom could only speak a small amount of English) Now I am not a negotiator but practising what I have learnt, have managed to control the situation with no one being shot or injured. It really boils down to Listening to what the perpretrator has to say first. Stay safe love and regards Paul

There should be a moderator because I have been blasted in a Forum. Clay is having problems. Other have just been totally attacked. There needs to be someone who yes, can be the police. This community is so big and still growing. I don't think there is anything wrong with some Law's on how you should act. Because as you can see some do need to be told. Or they have to leave. I was with another community for a short time and I could not believe how some of those people spoke to one another. So, I left. Your Friend, Lee