A perfect trifecta of brilliant thought! In the past few days I finally came to mean it when I said I forgave someone. I have been saving the words for years, behaving as if I had, going through the motions of forgiveness. Then finally, when I truly released the resentment from my heart-I knew that I had forgiven because I could see everything from a perspective of compassion for a wounded soul, striking out; needing to destroy any reminder of the decency that seems so foreign. At that point, I found myself able to pray sincerely for that person's happiness; and I was free.
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