Hi, Sharon.
You are right, of course, gratitude often goes unexpressed to the person performing the good deed, but this is the way of the world, I'm afraid.
Some people find it very difficult to accept that they really are fallible and not self sufficient and find it very difficult to put into words what they really want to say - Thank you are two of the hardest words to put together for many people.
Also, nowadays, you simply have to accept that the modern day teachings do not include the necessity to give thanks. We live in a society that expects to receive everything on a platter and, in which, doing a good deed is to create embarassment. (Where, for example, in the new view of the Law of Attraction does it say you should give thanks. It doesn't - what it does say is that 'you are entitled to .....')
For the most part, I believe that our good deeds receive indirect thanks as the people we aid, go to the aid of others because of the example they have been set.
As you say, we do not carry out good deeds in the expectation of thanks and appreciation but because we know no other way of behaving. Thanks or no thanks.
Most people are inherrently kind and appreciative at heart - just slow (or even unable) to show it.
The Old Coot
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