Hi Brenda,
Please don't get disappointed. Your frustration is not your fault. You just need mentoring like we all do. I belong to a group of individuals in various network marketing companies that really help each other to succeed. I can introduce you to this group if you like...it's free and the coaching is great!
Regarding advertisement, don't waste your money on buying lists and paying for advertising. I know someone in my group that is making $10,000/ month without paying for any advertising. I am beginning to follow her since I lost $100's in advertising to no avail. She is part of the mentoring group I talked about previously.
There is help out there and being on this forum is a great beginning. Network marketing is the best business on the planet. It just requires help for those who have been and are successful and don't have motives to get into your wallet.
Brenda, one thing you must be clear about. Network marketing is about people. It's about people helping people to succeed. Zig Ziglar once said that "You can have everything in life that you want when you help enough other people get what they want." When you care for people and help them succeed, the money will follow. This is as sure as the law of gravity.
One thing that I can advise you to do right away is to start a blog. You have to let people know who you are. This is what others have called "Attraction Marketing." You can create a blog for free using Google. You can see my blog and get an idea what I am talking about at: http://onlinemlmsuccesssecrets.blogspot.com/ They are easy to build and I can help you with it if you like...no strings attached. You will get an idea who I am by my blog anyway. There was a time that I don't know anything about blogging, but I now do it easily.
Another way to get know on the internet is through article writing. It's easy and ANYONE can do it. To get an idea about what it can do you you, just Google my name, Michael Puskas. I have several articles out there and you can view them if you like. When your write articles and submit them to Ezine's you end up becoming famous! It's easy and I can teach you that as well. Again, it's free!
The internet is a black hole with no personality. That is why you have to market YOU. Don't worry about your product. You have to market YOU first! That is what is so good about these forums. They help people get to know you. What kind of person are you? Can you be trusted? Are you for real?
One thing I learned from one of my mentors is this: "All people what to know is CAN I DO THIS AND CAN YOU HELP ME." Most folks are just like you, they have dreams, get into network marketing, especially online and then don't know what to do. Where are the teachers? That's what I like about our mentoring group. We are helping each other succeed. It's great.
So, I beg you, DO NOT GET DISCOURAGED OR GIVE UP. YOU can make it; I know YOU can!
Michael Puskas