Hello my friends,
Since I started my Series all over the world On Domestic Violence I never have recieved so many calls and notes. My son Kyle has been  helping me respond back to every one.There is a huge out pour of People who are looking for a way out.
You know it has been 2 years now that I left my abusive Relationship and I took my daughters and we left and never looked back. My son Kyle says to every one I can not believe my mom is so different now.
You can only be different if you get out of the bad one is in.
So My Son Kyle will be helping me as he had lived in it as well,So if you call and Kyle answers he is a safe Person for you to Talk to.

He has great advise and wisdom ,you know thru the eyes of a babe.Kyle is 22 years old.
Kathy Hamilton
Kyle= My Son

253 277 1238

A List of Abusive Behaviors

This is just one list. There are several, and they are all similar.

The Battered Women's Task Force of the NY State Coalition Against Domestic Violence asks women to answer "yes" or "no" to the following signs of domestic violence. BE HONEST!!

Does your partner:

1. hit, punch, slap, shove, or bite you?
2. threaten to hurt you or your children?
3. threaten to hurt friends or family members?
4. have sudden outbursts of anger or rage?
5. behave in an overprotective manner?
6. become jealous without reason?
7. prevent you from seeing family or friends?
8. prevent you from going where you want, when you want?
9. prevent you from working or attending school?
10. destroy personal property or sentimental items?
11. deny you access to family assets, such as bank accounts,
    credit cards, or even the car?
12. control all finances and force you to account for what you spend?
13. force you to have sex against your will?
14. force you to engage in sexual acts you do not enjoy?
15. insult you or call you derogatory names?
16. use intimidation or manipulation to control you or your children?
17. humiliate you in front of your children?
18. turn minor incidents into major arguments?
19. abuse or threaten to abuse pets?
20. The author of No Visible Wounds, Mary Susan Miller, adds one more:
    withhold conversation, sex, or affection from you?

Now, notice that only one, the first, is physical in nature. Here's the big one: If you answered yes to just one of the above, you are being abused. I don't care what the reasons he gives you for his actions. If he engages in just ONE of those listed, he is abusing you. As one woman put it, "It wasn't being hit or thrown against the wall that hurt most. It was having to live like a non-person." (from No Visible Wounds)

The worst of it is this: more often than not, the "threats" of hitting will grow into reality. What once was "just" name-calling becomes public ridicule, and eventually physical abuse.

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Thank you Kathy for the list of tips on DV & abuse. These are all true folks they are just the begining of what I call a nightmere.
But I am on the other side of it now just like Kathy H. is & can look back & say Never again will I overlook these things.
God does heal all wounds when we ask for his help. I have only been free from it for about 5 months now & know it was not me ( like I was told it was). It is that little devil inside the abuser that cannot see the other side of the coin.
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I am here to talk too if anyone needs me. ( Hope you don't mind Kathy H).
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Hello my friends,
Since I started my Series all over the world On Domestic Violence I never have recieved so many calls and notes. My son Kyle has been  helping me respond back to every one.There is a huge out pour of People who are looking for a way out.
You know it has been 2 years now that I left my abusive Relationship and I took my daughters and we left and never looked back. My son Kyle says to every one I can not believe my mom is so different now.
You can only be different if you get out of the bad one is in.
So My Son Kyle will be helping me as he had lived in it as well,So if you call and Kyle answers he is a safe Person for you to Talk to.

He has great advise and wisdom ,you know thru the eyes of a babe.Kyle is 22 years old.
Kathy Hamilton
Kyle= My Son

253 277 1238

A List of Abusive Behaviors

This is just one list. There are several, and they are all similar.

The Battered Women's Task Force of the NY State Coalition Against Domestic Violence asks women to answer "yes" or "no" to the following signs of domestic violence. BE HONEST!!

Does your partner:

1. hit, punch, slap, shove, or bite you?
2. threaten to hurt you or your children?
3. threaten to hurt friends or family members?
4. have sudden outbursts of anger or rage?
5. behave in an overprotective manner?
6. become jealous without reason?
7. prevent you from seeing family or friends?
8. prevent you from going where you want, when you want?
9. prevent you from working or attending school?
10. destroy personal property or sentimental items?
11. deny you access to family assets, such as bank accounts,
    credit cards, or even the car?
12. control all finances and force you to account for what you spend?
13. force you to have sex against your will?
14. force you to engage in sexual acts you do not enjoy?
15. insult you or call you derogatory names?
16. use intimidation or manipulation to control you or your children?
17. humiliate you in front of your children?
18. turn minor incidents into major arguments?
19. abuse or threaten to abuse pets?
20. The author of No Visible Wounds, Mary Susan Miller, adds one more:
    withhold conversation, sex, or affection from you?

Now, notice that only one, the first, is physical in nature. Here's the big one: If you answered yes to just one of the above, you are being abused. I don't care what the reasons he gives you for his actions. If he engages in just ONE of those listed, he is abusing you. As one woman put it, "It wasn't being hit or thrown against the wall that hurt most. It was having to live like a non-person." (from No Visible Wounds)

The worst of it is this: more often than not, the "threats" of hitting will grow into reality. What once was "just" name-calling becomes public ridicule, and eventually physical abuse.

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Do you know someone who needs to read this? Send it to her, but make sure it's her email and not his!