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Hello sweety,
Thank you, You know no one ever gives permission,It is not that any one allows it either, it creeps up on you out of no where, slowly, first it is the repremand, the yelling gets alittle louder, then the ordering you not to do this or that, the isolation starts, you donot want to see him get mad so you give in to what he says.
then all the other stages fall one after the other, but they do it in such a slow manipulative way, that before you know it you are so battered mentally and then it becomes physical.
Diane it is never ok for any one to do this to another, you can never change any one from who they are, there character is like how Ted Bundy was mostly, theyre charming to everyone but a monster behind closed doors, but the funny thing is all your neighbors here it and the abuser doesnt even care. yet the neighbors never want to get involved as well how sad is that???
I am just so thank ful to god that I found Adlandpro because Adlandpro literally gave me the courage to stand up to my x and say no more!!!!It really did save our lives literally, someone was going to end up dead!!!!!
Kathy
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