That's so true. I was the captain of a volleyball team in my last year of high school. Over the years leading to that last year I realized we would finish one step backward. That is, if we won the previous year we would come second the next... I made a promise to one of my much younger (by 3 years) teammates that as captain I would ensure that we broke the trend.
When the season started I had really high expectations, however, we lost the first three games. Yes we lost to some teams I knew we could have easily beaten. I was a bit irritated because I didn't know how I would ever motivate a team to win every other game in order for us to have a chance of moving further in the competition.
Then one day while on the court the same teammate I spoke with earlier came to me out of no where and said "remember what you told me?", I then asked "What are you talking about?" He said "You said we weren't going to finish lower than we finished last year. Just remember." He just said it, I tried to figure out the emotion behind it but I couldn't, it was almost as if he didn't say it. I knew I had to act and act big. I couldn't expose him to the kind of leadership I often come across these days; filled with promises and no fruit.
I realized I had to play a bigger role, I had to make a serious impact on all the games in order for us to have a chance. I read the biography of Michael Jordan and a few others and I gathered strength from them.
We were more than mere player, we were like miners strong and brave, in the following games, we whipped opponent after opponent in the most joyful fashion. I was popping with energy, my body felt alive as the muscles flexed, the sweat soaked my clothes and voices screamed YEEEEEESSS! one more point in the bag. We all felt it.
At the end of the day I must say it hurts that we didn't win the competition. But I rejoiced because one of my teammates got a special prize for best blocker. We came third overall and collected the bronze medals.
After losing the first three matches and being on the edge of dropping out or staying in. That was a great deal.
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