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Hello my friend,
With comments ans stories sharing with one another it really helps,
let me tell you a story, this is tough love which I was coordinater for, it applies to all.
My son was very responsible but alittle on the wild side,m great kid never really did anything wrong, well he knew all my rules and never broke them we just had a understanding the consequences.
well one night he didnt come home at his curfew, i was so worried because he never came home,i thought he was dead or something terrible had happened, well the later it got the worried i became, i stayed up all night, i never was felt worried like that ever, well he even had cell phone,no call, well the next day he came home in afternoon and now i was mad,
he was just hanging out with his friend, he just chose to not call his friends at that moment was more important so needless to say, i told him i would never stay up all night and worry ewhere he was that i told him either go live with one of your friends or move out or go into the service. he chose to go into the army. it was a great learning experience for him.
so whether it is a husband, wife or child there is reaction to every action.
Kathy Hamilton/simikathy.com
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