Thank you Kathy,
Wow, what a lot of information.
Although I agree in part with what you say it is also true to say that if you have the time and the knowledge to ask the right questions you can, and will, by diligent use of these tools unravel the strategy that this person uses.
Once you know these things you are then in a position to use their strategy against them and to turn their vanity and arrogance into a means to destroy their negative influence.
Other than in cases of real and severe mental instability I believe that anyone can be shepherded into more acceptable behavior and if they eventually decide themselves that they need to change it will, of course, make change even more rapid.
If I was to give up on everyone that came to me who tried to blame me for their failures then I would end up , not only unfulfilled but also, with no clients and no success stories.
So just keep reading (12) on your list and apply it. It works, and with my knowledge of NLP and Hypnotherapy I have an advantage over the ''Impossible'' or do I?
I give up on nobody, I don't always succeed, but, my successes outnumber my failures by a big proportion.
Maybe I am one of the ''impossible'' I don't know, or do I? You decide, will you?
Roger
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