That's what I've been preaching for years. If you want a friend, be a friend. Don't try to tout your wares like some street vender, that's not going to get you anywhere but the delete button.
If you're working with marketers don't try to sell them what they're trying to sell too. There are too many people pushing the same stuff all over the net.
Work on making friends and gaining trust and building relationships first, then once you're someone people know isn't out for their pocket they might be agreeable to join you in a venture. I don't know about you but I don't sign up for programs just because Joe Schoe who I never laid eyes on tells me that it's the best thing since buttered bread. I sign up under people I know who are already successful and they didn't get that way by doing the same thing everyone else does. They did it by working hard and spending the time to build the relationship with me and getting to know me well as a person.
I'm a networker, but I'm a mom, I'm a good person and I'm someone who is worth getting to know. I'm not just another number for your downline or another dollar in your paypal account. So give me the time to learn about me and what I stand for. Go to my site, read my about me page, and ask me questions about me and what I like, dislike, and offer me a way to contact you for help if I need it.
I do it for you, because I care about who you are and not just how much money I can make when you sign up for my program.
And if you do sign up, I'm going to take the time to help you make money. I'm not just going to get your name on the dotted line and leave you to fend for yourself. But I would appreciate getting to know you and you getting to know me at least a little bit.
If we're to work together, online or off, I at least want to know you a little bit before we "hook up". Becky
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