Hello my friends, My husband Jonathan and myself want to give you ideas of how to treat one another in your marriages. It is the small things that count in a relationship.Even as small as just a touch. Here are some examples- When you caress your spouse's hand, play with their feet, rub their shoulders, or stroke their cheek, there's a moment there (if you do it RIGHT) when your spouse knows that you are completely connected with them. Fill your marriage with a few of those moments each day and your relationship will begin to change. Now I don't want to leave you hanging...wondering what you're going to say and how you're going to touch. I figure if there's 50 ways to leave your lover, there must be at least as many ways to touch them or talk to them. So here's my "50 ways" list. Don't be overwhelmed. I created 50 so you would have options. Once again, my challenge to you is to pick 2; in the next 24 hours do 1 Talk Charge and 1 Touch Charge. 50 WAYS TO TALK AND TOUCH LIST 1. Express confidence in one of your spouse's decisions 2. Share dessert with one fork 3. What was "your song" when you were dating? Call your spouse and sing it to them. 4. Surprise visit your spouse at their office or home and give them a kiss... and then leave. 5. Play footsie next time you sit together 6. Learn a new joke today and share it with your spouse 7. Ask how your spouse's day went... and really listen 8. Kiss your spouse upon waking 9. Kiss your spouse before sleeping 10. Caress your spouse's hand 11. Touch your spouse's cheek or hand while driving 12. Rub shoulders next time you sit next to each other 13. Sit on your spouse's lap or sit them on yours 14. Compliment something your spouse is wearing 15. Call your spouse out of the blue to let them know you are thinking of them 16. Give your spouse a neck or shoulder massage 17. Share a story from the news or your day that you thought was interesting 18. What about dancing before dinner? No one's looking. 19. Tell your spouse that if you had to do it all over again, you'd choose them 20. Share a problem - thank your spouse for their concern 21. Play with your spouse's hair while talking in bed 22. Fall asleep holding hands 23. Remind your spouse to drive safely next time they leave the house 24. Call your spouse at work with the latest news. 25. Have a tickle "fight" 26. Say "I'm sorry" about a mistake you recently made 27. Think of 3 ways your spouse has made you a better person ... tell them now 28. Compliment your spouse on your favorite physical trait 29. Play Twister and let yourself laugh out loud 30. Look at your spouse when they are unaware of your gaze ... share your feelings 31. Share what you most admire about your spouse 32. Have a "remember when?" moment. 33. Thank your spouse for helping you through a challenging time in your life 34. Find a reason to touch your spouse when you are in the same room 35. Dig out the wedding album and reminisce 36. Hold hands under the table 37. Brush your mate's hair out of his/her eyes 38. Straighten his tie, being sure to touch him with love 39. Button or zip her dress, being sure to touch her with love 40. Knead the same dough together 41. Kiss in the elevator when no one is looking 42. Express confidence in your spouse's ability to overcome a problem 43. Listen to your spouse's worries - ask how you can help 44. Make your spouse's lunch for the day ... deliver it with a kiss 45. Send your spouse a fax with your special "code words" for I Love You! 46. Turn off your spouse's alarm clock - wake them with a massage 47. Kiss the back of your spouse's neck while he/she is reading 48. Before parting, tell your spouse you can't wait to see him/her again 49. An extra hug for no reason at all never hurt anyone 50. "Spoon" your mate while sleeping My husband and I are continually growing so we may always love eachother. Jonathan and Kathy Hamilton simikathy.com