And...one of the other things that keep Men and Women from finding their "SoulMate" is the idea that He or She has to come from THEIR ethic group.If you believe that God made Woman for Man, then you ought not have a problem looking at someone who is not of your persuasion as a possible mate.
There are so many people caught in the trap of "this color eyes,this color hair, this texture skin" and go about lonely wondering why they don't have someone in their life when their "soul" Mate could be in the next cubicle but He or She does not fit the narrow definition of Mate that they have assigned to themselves. By now, the old Stereotypes ought to be bygones. But it still amazes me when I read Ads in Newspapers and other sources where Men and Women are looking for "types". Happiness does not have a Color, nor is Love restricted to an Ethnic Conclave.
I think that more people would be happier if they could get past "He or She dosen't look like me"; What better adventure can you go on than the one that allows you to come to understand another's Culture and therefore Outlook on life? But..if folks are happy being lonely...
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