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Venerina Conti

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Re: What is real to you? ...
11/2/2006 5:17:27 AM

My dear dear Lemurian neighbour ...

You are so right ... there is no "One" universal truth or reality ... there never can be ...

... For you and I to share the same "perceived" reality, as with any form of relationship between human beings ... we would have to have some form of mutual understanding which is the product of our common experiences in life ... or previous experiences left over in our soul from previous lives ... but now I am going slightly beyond "this reality" ...

When we find ourselves on "common ground" then we can be understanding of each other ... despite our mental, data bank differences, and once we understand each other, we can communicate effectively with least damage possible ... i.e. less hurt, more respect ... more love and less war ...

Ok, I'm rambling when I should be studying ... was just taking a tea break ...

BIG BIG ... virtually real, or really virtual (depending on perspective) ... hugs right back at you ....

Have a great day/night

Venerina

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Re: What is real to you? ...
11/2/2006 5:22:39 AM

Hello dear Jenny ...

Well ... this is just it ... you can't take your eye off me for one second ... cause you never know what I'll be up to next ... nor where my mind is at ... Geeeezzzzz half the time I surprise myself ... but there is something about being sat quietly in the silence and in the relative darkness at 2 am in the morning drinking tea ... that makes me stop and introspect ... I can't help it .... lol ....

This is why I am single dear ... It's very difficult to find someone willing to share a mug of green tea and be philosophical at 2 am in the morning ...

Love you ...

V.

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Re: What is real to you? ...
11/2/2006 5:43:01 AM

My dear Geketa ...

First and foremost ----- I LOVE RAMBLERS ---- you could never ramble too much in my eyes .... so you ramble away everytime you feel like it ... you ramble it and I'll read it and reply to it ....

I agree totally with your view ... in fact I would say that "reality" only exists in the mind of the person who is constructing it ... like I said to Jill ... unless two people can establish a common ground within their own perceptions ... then they will never mutually understand each other ...

Human interaction is based on a series of prior information/experiences held in knowledge banks ... processed by the conscious mind and stored in the subconscious mind ... which I will post about at a later date ... and is only transmitted through effective communication skills, adaptability and, what is known in Neuro Linguistic Programming, as detached analysis of the said communication being transmitted ... (i.e. the ability to stand back and analyse what's going on between two individuals during communication)...

Sometimes we refuse to open our minds for fear of what we may find ... for fear of the unknown and because an old set of believed realities are easier to accept and to deal with ... than having to make new ones ...

However, my friend ... it is perfectly normal, and healthy for people's realities to change ... it is a sign of maturity, strength and courage and being true to the ever changing circumstances and environment around us ... one would hope that we all change all the time ... we grow ... our feelings change ... we open oursleves up to new possibilities and yes ... sometimes we suffer disappointment because of it ... but like Jill said ... everything is part of the learning process.

A big warm Madeiran Hug to you ... as the sun is out here today ...

Venerina

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Re: What is real to you? ...
11/2/2006 5:48:46 AM

Hello Deborah

Thank you very much and yes you are right ... everyone has to find their own reality in life ... and live... in honesty with themselves for the choices of reality they make ...

Take care and a big real hug

Venerina

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Re: What is real to you? ...
11/2/2006 6:14:19 AM
hello Venerina ...this is true to remember..it is always good to have a good goal and mission...let me see...what did I do with my dice...Larry
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