Hi Marilyn, Thank you for your invite to this wonderful forum! I am always amazed how sometimes people are at times their own worst enemies!
It is healthy to feel hurt and frustration if someone has not been fair in their treatment or dealings with you, but it's what you do about those feelings and whether you decide to channel them in a positive way or a negative way!
I feel in today's modern society, we have become very self absorbed, and it takes a small person to hate, it takes a bigger person to accept, deal and extend the olive branch to those that have hurt them!
If you think negative it diseases every other aspect of your life, Being positive in whatever life throws at you, will see you come through a stronger,happier,wiser person for it.
What you give gets returned! If someone hurts you, take the high road and don't retaliate, let things calm and work towards perserving your relationship with them, it is worth it.
Have a great day and start mending some of those bridges today! It will be worth it tomorrow!
Thanks again!
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