Hello Deborah! This is Luella. LOL! Thanks for dropping by! Kindest regards, Luella May and John Elliott, aka Oaky Wood

Hi there Luella and John, I agree in general that we are what life has made us and life is for living now and to be enjoyed. But I would be dishonest if I could say that I would NEVER change anything. I wouldn't change the things that I have experienced, whether good or bad. But never wanting to put the clock back for something I may have done to hurt another person - of course I would. We all would wouldn't we? Take care Jennifer

Hello Jenny, After reading your post I am going to reverse my position. Yes, I would go back and make one particular change. I once had a choice as to whom I would marry and I picked the wrong one. Why? Because my parents approved of the wrong one and the pressure was too great for me at the time. However, had I done that, where would I be now? I might not even be here replying to you. I would have had different or maybe no children, no bus kids, no elderlies. I would have gone down a totally different path. Would I have developed and anxiety disorder causing me to learn how to live my life in a more positive light? I surely would not be who I am today. And yes, I would choose to go back to do things differently in order not to hurt someone. Even though the hurt was not intentional, I would redo it. Of course, this is Luella. Kindest regards, Luella May and John Elliott, aka Oaky Wood