Hi Kathy Judgement and Hate are experienced by all at one time or another, but it's how you handle it that counts. I at times think about things, but I try to block them out and finalize my thoughts as to not provoke or instigate others with my thoughts. Control is a key element.... ======================================= Place a FREE AD on me: http://FreeAdTraffic.com 10,500 Free HITS from this link: Massive Traffic for FREE http://freetrafficbar.com/virtual.php?p=22&ref=58734 FREE: Multiply Your Advertising Results By Thousands With Your Ad Listed On 5635+ Sites! Tons OF Traffic! http://www.programhoppers.com?5638

Sometimes things really get to you. It is hard but you should step back and say to yourself is this worth my precious time in getting even. As Dale Carnegie said give things the right amount of time they deserve then move on. Vince

OK-ok:-)You never quit stiring the pot:-)That's good though, life is too dull without some shaking up. On the topic of pushing buttons, let's take this one step further and talk revenge. Road rage is bad but all too frequent attitude confronting this cowboy each and every day. If I get headlights flashed in my rear view mirror I would, if I had one, press an easy button pasting him with a tomatoe from a potatoe gun.

Hi Kathy. An important message!! "Judge not lest ye be judged." I have peace in my heart but also sometimes anger. There is a member who is in a business that is a competitor of one of mine. They email me RUDE notes at my ISP They write trashy notes in MY forums --AGAINST my company. Why can't people be nice? If you don't agree with an opinion....move on. This is frustrating. Thanks for letting me vent a little. God, give me strength, Pat

Hi Kathy, Thanks for the invite. As the article says we all judge from time to time, it is human nature. It takes a lot of practice and self-control not to judge. Let me leave you with this Quote: "If you judge people, you have no time to Love" Great article! Thanks for sharing Donna